The rise and fall of Abolore Akande(9ice).

2009 was more than 9ice for the Nigeria artiste,9ice.he went home with four headies!(HIP-HOP WORLD AWARDS),and we were all looking forward to a beta 2010 for because we all knew he was dropping another album.

But,so many things came to a standstill for 9ice and all his lovers on the 8th of January,when his PR outfit released a press release signed by the artiste that he is separating from his wife for a while,even though they remained good friends and business partner.

*sighs*

why do they have to separate?
for me,they are just perfect for each other,(from what i read and saw)
Even though separation is becoming more than rampant among celebrities,my mouth was left hung open for an unconsiderable lenght of time.unshed tears garther in my eyes.i was more than disappointed.
but,i haven't got the disappointment at all,since i came accross the news on Linda Ikeji's blog,i knew there would be comments,so,i proceeded.
and it was there i got the shocker of my life!


"to move back to his Alatika clan. Omo le ni, won ti gbe si ori bed, o ti fi style jabo si le. I really like Toni but women, we need to have some minimum standards. In anything in life, water should find its own level.women, we need to stop picking up riff raffs and cleaning them up all cos we want husband. I am not a big girl o, but for what i have worked for in my life, shit i aint settling for anything below my standards. if that means dying single...so be it. I know my weakness and i will probably quench if a guy uses me to up his game, then bounces....talk about a good reason toget a criminal record cos that mofo is going down. shit i am just mad at this local boy turn celeb. omo ati oko wa ba ile je"

that was the comment from one of the people who felt 9ice was solely to be blame for this break-up.(i weak for people sha!)i will not trade blames,but if you want to know,the marriage had cracks since last year because there is a track on 9ice's new album,tradition,titled 'once bitten twice shy',the first time i heard the track,i knew his marriage was not intact.
i love 9ice despite everything,people are blaming this on him,saying he is an illiterate,and he is too low to get married to a tush gal like toni,et al.and some even said he is the Naija version of Tiger Wood.
i would rather not blame anybody as far as this issue is concerned,but people should remeber that;
 you can take the man out of the street,but not the street out of the man!

I cant do much writting now,but i will be back for a more better gist!

Celebrities break-up(9ice and Toni payne announces sepration)

9ice and Toni Payne announce separation

Press release from 9ice’s PR Company

Lagos

Nigeria

January 8, 2010

It’s a brand new year of opportunities and possibilities; and we’ll specially like to thank you for your love and support for 9ice and his label this past year.

That 9ice has grown from an upcoming singer-performer, to become one of Africa’s most promising exports, is not just as a result of his talent, hard work and can-do spirit; but because the media in Nigeria (print, broadcast and online) have been extremely kind to him and his music.

Unfortunately, we may have some sad news for you.

9ice and his beautiful wife Toni Payne; with whom he tied the knots last year; are separating.

The couple have agreed to separate for a while, even though they continue to remain good friends and business partners.

Their baby Zion will reside with Toni for now.

This is a very very tough decision for the couple, and it’s a tough, even trying time for the young partnership we all admire so much. And they’re even the more constrained to make this announcement; knowing it will shatter many of their fans, and admirers inside and outside the country.

But they have both agreed to be responsible about the development, and make public what is necessary, to avoid unnecessary speculations, and rumours.

And it is their wish that we all respect their privacy at this period.

Neither 9ice nor Toni will be granting any press interviews on this matter.

Hmmmmmmmmmmm

this is so unbelievable!

i mean,their relationship does not in anyway appear like it was going to the rocks as fast as this.for real,i'm short of words.

Apparently,it not so new for celebrity break up.but this is mind-shattering.i would never have thought in my wildest dreams that this couple would break up,at least not as fast as this.

Since the press release from his PR company,there as been so much speculation from all his fans,both locally and internationally.some were surprised,while some were not.some has been expecting it for a long time,while to the likes of me,it's nothing but a big blow!

Some lay the blame solely on the wife,Toni Payne,saying she got married to 9ice simply because of the pregnancy,she is a normal girl living in new york,she was so love struck when they were dating,and all of a sudden,when they got married,her fb status did not suggest that of a newly wed,but discussed more of her business matters.some even said she got married to 9ice because of his fame(which i totally disagree to).some of her friend even said she stopped talking about her marriage after a short while,she only talked about her son and her business.at a time,she was accused of being just a business partner with 9ice.

 

 On the other hand,some said this break up is caused simply because of 9ice's sexcapades.i heard  he's fast becoming Nigeria's tiger wood,he was accused of infidelity,and that this fame of a thing was beginning to get into his head(even though her managerial skills made him popular)some thinks because he is not a graduate,he is finding it difficult to cope with Toni.

I read a response on a blog i'm following and the comment was really BAD!

here it goes

"That razz local boy don land big girl finish, now it's to move back to his Alatika clan. Omo le ni, won ti gbe si ori bed, o ti fi style jabo si le. I really like Toni but women, we need to have some minimum standards. In anything in life, water should find its own level.women, we need to stop picking up riff raffs and cleaning them up all cos we want husband. I am not a big girl o, but for what i have worked for in my life, shit i aint settling for anything below my standards. if that means dying single...so be it. I know my weakness and i will probably quench if a guy uses me to up his game, then bounces....talk about a good reason toget a criminal record cos that mofo is going down. shit i am just mad at this local boy turn celeb. omo ati oko wa ba ile je."

 

This is so crazy and untrue!for real,i dont believe in the fact we fellow humans are capable of helping ourselves.our help comes solely from God!we humans are just fortunate to be appointed as the instrument of such helps.

 

Left to me,so many things are so UNreal concerning this relationship,starting from the distance.9ice is a Naija based guy,who rarely jet out of the country except for shows.his spouse on the other hand is a Los Angeles based chick,and a big one to be precise!(and of course thier educational background)after they got married,they were blessed with a kid(boy) and he was christened ZION!

Jezzz!

The first time i heard that,i couldnt help but laugh,thinking im my frigging mind whose idea it was,9ice's or Toni's idea?

i mean both are Yoruba(Abolore and Oluwatoni) so where the heck does zion originated from??????????

And to make it even more interesting both parties still remains good friends and business partners!for where????????

*sighs*i weak for all this Nigerian artistes and thier make belive world sha!

Both artistes are keeping thier mouths sealed on this issues,so all this are apparently speculations and what i've read!

i sincerely hope theywill boyth overlook thier diffrences and better move on,because,where two elephant fights,the grass suffers.and the grass here happens to be thier child.

So lets all keep our fingers crossed and see if this is another kind of hollywood publicity stunt!

i so which it is ooooooooooooooooooooo!

keep your eyes glued here for more info sha.

*sighs*

 

 

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Thank you,and ova-ish's

Egbami!
2009 is already over
For shizzle mhen,its totally a brand new year,and I've got so many things lined up for this year(though,thats another topic entirely)

2009ice was not all that smooth a ride,so many hitches here and there,so many great stuffs happened as well,but most importantly,some people i met really made it a wonderful experience.some made it rock,while some made it suck.but i still cant help but make a short dedix to everyone.you all deserve my sincere appreciation...........

so,here we go!


To God,you have,and will always be my source of inspiration,what could i have done withou you?
i pray you continue being my guide always.

My parents,you've always been there for me,through thick and thin.so much love and many more is what i am giving you both,but sha,more is coming as time goes on.lol

Adedoyin,sweet mi,i lurv you more than you can imagine.you are one of those few friends i had that lighten up my world.i dont want to magine my life without your friendship.mhen,we are too good for each other!loadz of bucket full of kisses for you alone!MWWWAAH!!!!!!!!

Mutiat,waoh!cant believe we did not see each other throughout last year!miss you plenty,and hoping we 'jam'this year oooooo...lol!

My siblings(Foluke,Jummy&Lolade),hmmmmmmmmmmmm,well i never planned to have siblings while growing,but you guys are the best!what can i say?i love you all for keeping up with me and my.............u sure rock!

John and Ahbay,you guys are the perfect definitions od a jerk!but,i still cant do with you guy unneccesary love and care!

To all my cousins(biodun,ade,adefioye,kolade,fem,nikki,caroline,olumide,olukemi,temmy,feranmi,feyisoluwa,mayowa,yioruchi,oyekanmi thespian,niyi)i love you all,we Laoye's surely rock!its a one big royal family!

Oluwaseun,he he,because i got you in my life,i;m never going to be afraid of getting into trouble!lolz,,,,,,,,,,thanks gal,you always got my back like i'm your kitten!i adore u.

Adetola,my dearest dokita,thanks for beign a friend,confidant and much more.but sha,there's possibility we fight this year if you don't get yourself a nice(we both understand what i mean.lol).thnk u plenty!

Judith,thanks for beign more than a nice course mate,our friendship sure makes sense!

Holla,thanka a bunch for boosting me up.i apprecite.

Tosyn Bucknor,whao!thanks for the informations(JEANS FOR THESE G.E.N.E.S,TARUWA,mushin makeover,MISS CONTRADICTION,tosyns buzz..and every other ones i cant remember.u make my world...........

Ugochi,u happen to be my only real pal in my hood!we are just too much.lol,we are not meant to loud it!

Haterz and beeferz,why wont i love u too,when you are kind enough to hate me and beef me!esamo,me love you guys die!(*wink*)

Farouk Abdulmutallab,forget the fact that you almost killed your self in that plane you planned bombing and the fact that everybody kept putting blames on you!im hapi for you simply because you have succeded in landing your sorry ass in jail!

To all my peeps at Bachel(charles,bimbolexxy,tolulope,shallom,bukunmi,raymond.Adaora,yetunde,biodun,tosin suki,bisola,chidi,ayo.lk,osagie,sarah,gold,tosin e.t.c)we all sure made that bachel of a tutorial centre rock last year!sure there aint gonna br another click as crazy as ours.

To all my friends on facebook....lets do it again this year!

So,i sincerely hope you are ready to match in grand style to 2010.for me,good things are already happening and i'm sure thats the least fo me this year!

what 'bout you????????